25 November 1950 - 17 March 2024
Dear Dad,
I love you so much, I miss you so dearly.
When I shut my eyes I see you, I see your smile, I hear your voice.
You left me too soon, but I know you are watching over me and I can't stop thanking God for giving me such a great dad.
I LOVE YOU...
I LOVE YOU...
I LOVE YOU...
...NOW AND ALWAYS
Your darling daughter,
Vivian
In loving memory of a cherished father, whose unwavering love and guidance illuminated the path of those he held dear. His presence was a beacon of strength and wisdom, a constant source of inspiration to all who knew him. With a heart full of kindness and a spirit of generosity, he touched the lives of many and left an indelible mark on our souls.
In the embrace of eternity, his legacy lives on through the countless memories we shared, the lessons he imparted, and the values he instilled within us. Though he may have departed from this earthly realm, his spirit continues to shine brightly, guiding us through life's journey.
May his enduring love and enduring legacy serve as a guiding light, comforting us in times of sorrow and inspiring us to live our lives with purpose and compassion. As we bid farewell to a beloved father, let us take solace in the knowledge that his love will forever remain etched in our hearts, a timeless reminder of the profound impact he made on our lives. It’s hard to forget someone who gave us so much to remember. He asked for so little, but gave so very much.
A loving father, tender and kind, what a beautiful memory you left behind.
Your beloved son,
Kingsley
This is the most painful thing I’ve ever done in my life, trying to condense my thoughts and words to convey my love and loss. Everyday since you’ve been gone has been hard, processing my grief has been a daily lesson in perseverance and strength in the midst of profound loss and pain. Not a day goes by that I do not think about you, your love, your kindness, your calmness, the moments I had with you, the moments I’ll never have again.
Grief is intense sadness, anger, despair, guilt, acceptance, disbelief, numbness all taking their turns in your mind...repeatedly. They say it gets better with time, we’ll see, but right now I want to hold on and cherish every memory I have of you.
You saw the good in everyone, you had such a kind and beautiful soul, you were too good for this world.
I love you and I miss you, always and forever.
Your loving and broken-hearted daughter,
Helen
I am still lost, confused and short of words. I can't believe you've gone forever. It feels like you traveled and would come back very soon, but it is a journey of no return... it's now dawned on me that it is real. Death snatched my beloved husband away from me. Now, I am alone without my bosom friend, my defender and biggest cheerleader.
"O death, where is your sting? O grave, where is thy victory?"
But I take solace in our Lord Jesus Christ, who gives me strength!
Franco, you fought the good fight of faith. Rest on my dear until we meet again.
You will always be in my heart.
Your dearest and beloved wife,
Essy
At his residence; Amaogwu, Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
At his residence; Amaogwu, Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
At (Holy Child) WTC Primary School; Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
At (Holy Child) WTC Primary School; Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
At his residence; Amaogwu, Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
At his residence; Amaogwu, Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
Follows immediately at (Holy Child) WTC Primary School; Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
Follows immediately at (Holy Child) WTC Primary School; Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
At All Saints Catholic Church; Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
At All Saints Catholic Church; Ugwuegu, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, Nigeria
My absolutely kind , humble and great in-law,
The news of your passing was not what I expected to hear. You were an exceptional and great man whose kindness, humility, and impeccable generosity touched the lives of those who were fortunate enough to know you. I am one of the beneficiaries of your kindness and generosity.
You were more than a family member; you were a pillar of strength and support, a beacon of light in times of darkness. Your selflessness knew no bounds, and your genuine love and concern for others was truly remarkable. Whether through your words of wisdom, your lending hand, or your infectious smile, you made a positive impact on all who crossed your path.
How I wish it was your birthday or something else that I was called to celebrate! In all things , however, I give thanks to God, who is the Father of all comfort, and who is able to comfort us at this difficult time.
Thank you for being an absolutely great husband to my precious sister and a great dad to my precious nephew and nieces.
It will be difficult not to miss you, sir, but I am sure God knows the best and you’re in a better place. Rest well, sir, even in the bosom of the Lord.
Dad, the short time we stayed together at Ugwuegu and our phone calls, l had no doubt that you were a man of faith and humility.
It's quite painful to hear about your demise but it is also consoling that your life was well spent. I pray that the good Lord accept you in his kingdom. Rest dear dad .
I promise to live by the enviable qualities l learnt from you.
Francis whom I met through his lovely wife Esther, was a gentleman. His time was upand he has gone to be with the Lord. May his gentle soul rest in eternal bliss 🙏🏾
Francis deserves all the accolade and more. He was a Husband in a million
-- A Dad for all season.
Over the years we've known our selves, I can't pinpoint any area of his God given assignment that he's fallen short to family and humans in general. Thank God he witnessed some of the result of his long term sacrifice and seed sowing He did not labour in vain and his Legacy stand as Testimony.
Though he'll be sorely missed, we take solace in his reunion with his Maker while we pray for the repose of his soul. He was a great Husband, Father and Friend. My entire family share your grief Essy
A person stays forever with us through his love and for his legacy can every day be witnessed in the love he had for his family.
God bless you Francis!
My condolences to the Okoh family and especially my dear Esther.
We met Mr. Okoh through his wife Esther. A kind and gentle man that we met often at Church in Mexikoplatz.
Our condolences to the family. May the Lord comfort them, and may his soul rest in eternal peace.
Big daddy...as I profoundly call u...I will forever remember the good times we spend together..the good advice..that fatherly figure that you always portrayed towards me, this is what I will cherish for the rest of my life. My being here was as a result of your intervention.
Big dadddddddy continue to rest in blossom of Lord...you will be greatly missed😭😭😭😭...RIP UNCLE FRANCIS!!!
Dear Esther,
My heart goes out to you for the loss of your dear husband .
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Mr Francis, your exit is really unbelievable!
Mr Frank Okoh was a great friend to my family along with his wife, Esther Okoh. Frank was such a gentle, humble and kind-hearted man who loved people and was always willing to help everyone. He was very peaceful and tolerant and had always treated his wife, who is my friend, like a queen.
It is really disheartening that he left this world so soon. I pray that the family he left behind will find solace in the Lord God Almighty. The Lord will uphold them, strengthen and comfort them daily.
Frank, may your good and gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord till we meet again.
Adieu, good man!
Big Daddy (as we call you) is a kind man and a true gentleman, he always put others before himself.
I have such great memories of you, dad. Big Daddy, you are an incredible man, and I know you will be terribly missed by me and all of your family. You are an amazing person, and it was a privilege to have known you. You will be deeply missed.
Big Daddy, you are one of a kind, and your warmth and kindness will never be forgotten by those who were fortunate enough to have known you. Hearing about your departure to the great beyond broke 💔 my heart.I wish I had a picture with you. Never had a chance to see you after so many years.
Dad was a wonderful person who had such a positive impact on so many people's lives. Your memory will live on in all of us. The memories of you dad will remain in our hearts forever - may they bring us comfort during this painful period.
Big Daddy, you are a truly special person, No words can adequately express what your children must be feeling right now. May God give us strength during this trying time.
Thank you for accepting me as a son and all I learned from you. Your calmness, love, kindness, wisdom, how about those awesome smiles, your care, humility, and much more.
I wish GOD would send you back to us, I wish you could read what I am writing right now, I wish and desire you to just give us that smile one more time.
With all sincerity of a broken heart 💔 I want to say you are deeply appreciated and never forgotten.
Thank you for all you did. You lived a life of impact!
"The deeds you do may be the only sermon some persons will hear today.”
“A single sunbeam is enough to drive away many shadows.”
"Lord, make me an instrument of your peace: where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy."
These famous words was written by no other than St.Francis of Assisi, who happens to be the Patron Saint of our beloved..MY beloved Big Daddy (as famously called by my folks),He embodied and lived every word spoken by the famous Saint.
I watched as my Big Daddy waved me goodbye at the Immigration section of the Muritala Mohammed International Airport on 13th March 2024. If anyone had told me that it'll be the last time i'd see him, I would have seriously questioned the person's state of mind but it's a reality that I've got to deal with.
You were a Father to all. You lived for others.
Everytime I think about you, all I see is your soft yet charming smile. You were kind, gentle and soft spoken. I remember you calling me every week to check up on me and inquire about state of things at my end. Big Daddy, I'll miss you and I'll live to extend the love and kindness you showed me to others.
Words fail me as i can't pen down the way i feel. I know you're smiling down from heaven watching over us. While you lived here on Earth, I loved you. In Death, I love you more.
Sleep well Legend
My Beloved Big Daddy
I'm writing this with tearful eyes and a heavy heart that is tremendously saddened by this loss.
Words are not enough for me to express my profound pain and sadness. I take solace in the fact that when the heart grieves over what it has lost, the spirit rejoices over what is being left behind.
Big Dad, you left behind an exemplary and admirable legacy. You always had a listening ear to whosoever that came to you and your strength of compassion gave us a great sense of protection. Your words of encouragement, motivation, inspiration, bright spirit, benevolence, kind heart and enthusiasm will always be remembered.
I feel honoured and blessed to have shared strong family ties and deep bonds with you. I will always cherish the countless fond memories I had with you.
Big Dad, you're gone forever from my sight but never from my heart. There are no goodbyes for me... you will always and forever be in my heart.
Your beloved nephew,
Anwara Emmanuel Onyekachi
My dearest and beloved big brother, big daddy for life, I still find it so hard to believe that you’re gone to be with the Lord, oh how I miss your smile, gentleman nature, care, kindness, love, humility, our conversations, your encouraging words and everything about you.
The news of your call to glory came in as rude shock to me, but I’m happy because I know you left a great legacy and lived a very good life, most importantly because I know that you’re resting in the bosom of the Lord.
Till we meet to part no more, brother. I will take solace in the comfort of the Holy Spirit.
Brother, I will forever miss you.
ADIEU NWOKEOMA
ADIEU BIG BROTHER
ADIEU PAPPY
ADIEU BIG DADDY FOR LIFE
ADIEU MY GREAT BROTHER IN-LAW!!!
A gentle man par excellence.
Rest in the Lord,
ezigbo mmadu 🙏🏾
Please, accept my deepest condolences. May the Lord grant him eternal rest in His bosom, Amen.
May his soul rest in peace.
I pray God to grant the family the fortitude to bear this loss.
My dearest Mrs. Okoh, Vivian, Kingsley and Helen,
Although I never met your husband and father, I have always felt his presence through the love for his family. I sincerely hope and believe that he will continue to do so and navigate you through this difficult time.
My sincerest condolences to all of you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as I always do.
Much love,
KK
The news of your death was a rude shock to us. Oga, as I fondly call you when you were on earth, you were epitome of humility, gentility, kindness, and empathetic. You were a source of inspiration to many that came across you.
Oga, I miss you dearly!
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
To Kingsley, Vivian, Helen and Dr. Essy,
may God grant you people solace to bear the loss in Jesus comforting name.
Gentle Man Francis as my husband Gary and I fundly called you. You were a gentle well spoken man , with a permanent smile on your face. God gives and takes at will. Rest on great warrior of Christ until resurrection day. Easy my Sis and children , be strong for God has your backs..
In remembrance of a life so beautifully lived and a heart so deeply loved. Mr Okoh leaves behind a legacy of warmth, wisdom, and enduring love that has touched many lives.
To Mrs Okoh, Vivian, Kingsley and Helen, may peace and comfort find you during this difficult time. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Dear family Okoh, we were so saddened to hear of Mr. Francis Okoh's passing. Our heart goes out to you, and our earnest prayers are with you.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
May his gentle soul continue to rest in the bosom of the almighty God.
Dear Esther & Family,
Sending our deepest condolences. Our thoughts are with you as you navigate through this heartbreaking loss. 🙏🏻🕯️🩶
May his beautiful soul continue to rest in peace.
LEND YOUR WINGS | I MOUNT | I FLY.
My Big Daddy,
I was so shocked on hearing about your departure off this world, 😞 I became instantly upset and furious the night I was informed, I had to force sleep that night because when I remembered few days before, me watching you sleep at your hotel room and at an hour you needed to cover your legs with the bed cover...I covered up your legs with the bed cover and you then slept before I headed home with my Siblings few minutes after.
I have always wanted to present my University Certificate to you Sir, because you and your Family have dedicated so much love in ensuring I went to the best institution but All Glory to God, I will have you in my Sponsorship Credentials.
Big Daddy, you have been a lovely and caring Father to your children, loved ones all over the world and no one is going to go against that statement. I will always remember all the stories and good things my Dad do tell me about you and your close friendship with him.
I love you forever Big Daddy💛.
May your smile rule forever.
Your dear little son.
Prince
Big Daddy Austria!
On that night I heard you left this earth to rest in the bosom of your creator, I heard a loud cry from the bedroom. I was scared and stood up to know what happened while my wife jumped off her sitting position to question Esther who was coming out of the bedroom broken and crying.
What happened? I questioned…
“Big Daddy” she said.
What happened?
“Big daddy has gone to rest with the lord.”
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Yes, I believe you have gone to rest with the lord.
You have played your part and fought a good fight.
I have heard a lot about you from my in-laws and my dear wife. The story of your good deeds is well spoken by my mother in-law which makes me to strongly believe all I have read about you. It’s so painful that the time I’ve spent to know you is so short. And the very little times I spent speaking with you on the phone will always be cherished.
I thought your coming around will be our first meet. But God knows best.
You made the world a better place with your kind heart and selfless spirit.
You'll be forever missed, but never forgotten. May your memory live on in our hearts forever. And may you rest in peace knowing that you were loved so deeply by so many.
Rest in Peace Big Daddy
Oh darling big daddy, it’s quite hard having to do this, where do I start from?
What will I miss most about you?
Is it your ever smiling face, your laughter, humility, selflessness, wisdom, love for family or unique act of listening.
I remember several years ago, when I was studying for an external exam, physics and further maths to be precise, you were around and noticed I was having troubles solving the problem, you came to the dinning table, sat down beside me and helped me to solve the equation, and yes I ended up passing that exam because what you taught me came out.
Dear godfather, you were a perfect gentleman, though my heart greatly griefs, I rejoice heartily because heaven has gained an Angel.
Continue smiling in heaven and resting in perfect peace that surpasses all understanding.
My dearest one and only Big Daddy,
Words have truly failed me!
Although I am not a writer, I have encountered writer's block while attempting to pen down this tribute to you, big daddy. It's as if the weight of my emotions and the depth of my gratitude are too vast to be captured by mere words. Nevertheless, I want to try, because you mean the world to me....I'm writing this tribute with a heavy heart, yet filled with immense gratitude for your love and unwavering support.
Oh how I wish someone will wake me up from this nightmare because that's what this feels like even while penning down my memories.
From childhood , you've been a second father as well as my one and only big daddy. You always made sure your impact was felt in every possible way.
Words cannot express the depth of my gratitude for everything you've done for me.
Thank you for being a constant source of love and support big daddy. I will forever be grateful for the previous moments we've shared and created together.
I will definitely miss your calls and texts especially your warm and love-filled laughter.
With a heavy heart and tears-filled eyes, I bid you farewell Big Daddy.
Rest in Peace knowing you left a legacy of love that will forever be remembered.
You will always hold a special place in my heart.
Goodbye Big Daddy!!
Your one and only Baby Esther
He was indeed a great man. May his gentle soul rest in the peace of our lord.
Aya Oba, I’m sorry to hear about the death of your husband. May the good Lord comfort you and the family, and may his soul rest in peace.
May the Lord be with you, Esther, and the children.
I had opportunity to see and interact with Mr Francis Oko in his last visit that turned out to be his last days. A man accomplished all round. His wonderful wife has remained faithful and caring, and the family remains worthy of emulation.
May his gentle soul rest in peace.
Dear Esther and family,
So sorry to hear of this tragedy. Hope you can stay strong until time very slowly heals this wound.
Take care,
Karim
What a great loss. We are consoled by the fact he is with the Lord.
Good night Frank
Heartfelt condolence and prayers. 🙏🌹🌹🌹
Herzliches Beileid 🙏
Our sincere condolences
Dear Esther,
I am very sorry. I wish you a lot of strength.
All my love Petra
Our sincere condolences too
Also from us the deepest condolences and much stenght for you and your family.
My dear sister Esther,
Nothing is enough to be said in loving memory of your husband Francis, who passed away unexpectedly. He will be deeply missed by your wonderful family, and all who knew him.
May he rest in peace and may his kindness, warmth, and love live on in your hearts forever.
Chief Francis Chukwu Oko was a good man, very easy-going and unassuming.
He was a community leader par excellence as he scored firsts in his organisational abilities. Ugwuegu community and Afikpo in general will not forget him in a hurry.
May his soul and the souls of the faithful departed rest in perfect peace. Amen.
The pang of death is irreversible like labour pain which cannot be averted when nature calls.
I sincerely condole with the entire family of our brother Francis Oko for the irreparable loss . Time shall heal your wounds. May you bear the loss with fortitude and may his gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord.
Once again, accept my condolences.
Dearest Sis. Esther and Family,
I have known Bro Francis but through the Eucharistic Celebrations that you attended in the PGG, but he left a lasting impression of a gentle man and a soft-spoken Christian. Rest assured of the community’s prayer for the repose of his soul. I am with you in prayers in this moment of bereavement!
CHIEF ONIIKARA FRANCIS CHUKWU OKOH - THE JETTA MAN
My dear brother, you became my Daddy when you and Mummy Esther stood as our God parents during my wedding with my Darling, Modesther.
You were a dependable mentor, counsellor and positive influence to me and my family. You were one of those who encouraged my education inspite of very huge challenges. Recall the Exam Success Notes, the WAEC past question papers and marking schemes that gave me a very solid start. Remember your weekend visits to UNILAG with the immaculate white Jetta Car that earned you the accolade, “The Jetta Man”. You played significant role in the preparation for my wedding and stood with your wife as our God parents. You and I had ‘inner’ understanding that people use to wonder how we knew how one would react in a given situation.
It was therefore hard to accept that you have transited to be with the Lord. I will miss your calm disposition, generosity and selflessness. But you have to go. Your legacy will remain indelible. Good bye:
Good man
Excellent Organiser and leader
First president of Ugwuegu Elu Students Association (USA)
Mentor to many
Oniikara Ehugbo
The Jetta Man
Death, an inevitable end for all mortals.
The Lord gave and has taken. Glory be to thee o Lord.
Broda , you are remembered for what you have done for the family
May God Give the entire family the grace to bear this irreplaceable loss IJN
Nnaye Okoh, what happened? when I heard you have gone to be with the Lord a lot of questions originated in my mind but without answers, what wrong,what really happened,what brought about this demise,I could not find any answer but the word of God quickly came to my rescue.The secret things belongs to the Lord what He reveals to us we take.The whole truth is that we wanted you around but your maker wants you to be with Him.we take solace in the way you lived.
You were conscious of your relationship with God and service to humanity.These qualities are the reasons God created us and many lack this understanding and live for self.For days I couldn't do much, very weak and disenchanted. The Lord made me understand these truths and my spirit man became elated ,you didn't live an empty life you achieved God's plan and purpose for. You touched lives with your gentle and humane spirit clothed with hearing, listening ears and a caring heart. You may be gone physically but your life is still speaking. We Bless God for you.
Oga Francis, rest on!
I knew you, Sir, through your darling wife, Dr. (Mrs.) Esther Okoh (my former colleague). I have known the Okoh's family, for a long time and for good reasons. You fully supported your wife in her academic and professional career. You gave your children quality education with strong home training. Your love to your family was unparalleled.
You were a great father to your children and a wonderful husband to your darling wife (Essy). That you will be missed by your family and all who knew you, is an understatement.
Because your family is a Christian family, my encouragement to especially your wife and children is from 1 Thess. 4: 13-18. May your gentle soul rest in peace 🙏 Amen!!!
Please accept my condolences.
Uncle Francis was such a great and kind man.
May his soul rest in perfect peace.
Amen
OUR CALM AND LOVING DADDY ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you daddy for
signing me into a successful marriage almost 28yrs ago with Major General Austin Okoh.
Knowing you Daddy Francis and Mummy Esther is one of the best thing that happenned in our lives. Daddy, may your soul find peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ, Amen. Until we meet again, to part no more.
Mummy, please take heart and may God continue to comfort you and your family at this trying time
I recall our last encounter vividly. You stood in our home, and my father (may his soul rest in peace) shared news of my admission to FGC Okposi for secondary studies.
It was then that you posed a simple yet profound question to me: “What is your focus?” my contemplation led to various responses, but none aligned with your intent. So, you clarified: my focus is to acquire the knowledge necessary to excel in WAEC and JAMB exams, and ultimately secure admission to the university. You further explained that all other activities I would meet at the college were secondary and distractions to be avoided.
Oddly enough, that conversation etched itself into my psyche. I’ve since navigated life, sidestepping distractions, and remaining steadfast in the pursuit of my academic and professional aspirations. Your wisdom guided me, in addition to other nuggets of wisdom passed on to me by my dad.
Now, learning of your passing comes as a rude shock. The exemplary life you lived shines brightly based on the number of people you positively touched through your words and deeds. Though you’ve departed, I believe you reside in a better place.
May your soul find eternal rest, and may Almighty God grant your loved ones the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss. 🙏
REMEMBERING OUR LOVING MR. FRANCIS OKOH
This tribute cannot express the sorrow and sadness I felt on hearing that Mr. Francis Okoh, the beloved and great hubby of my cherished friend, Esther Okoh had passed on. Although two things await every person, to live and to die, the news of his sudden transition was quite devastating and hard to comprehend.
Nevertheless, where words fail, memories speak. “As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters"- Seneca. It's a gentle reminder that the quality of our life is more important than the length and a necessity to live well. The sun has indeed set on an amazing life. It was an honour to have known Mr. Okoh an exceptional human being in all he did.
Mr. Okoh was always there for his wife and children. He loved and cared for them in every sense of the word. He was ever supportive and selfless as far his family is concerned. He was undoubtedly Essy's big rock. His beautiful memories will surely help the family navigate this difficult period.
Dear Sis, I know Oga Francis meant the world to you and children. Please remember that you're not alone, and that I am always here to support you with love and a shoulder to cry on. May God grant his gentle soul eternal rest and comfort you all with his peace, Amen..
May the Lord rest the soul of the deceased in peace. I pray that the great Comforter will comfort the family left behind. May He grant you the fortitude to bear the loss.
Accept my condolences Mrs. Esther Okoh.
FrancisOko ✝️
A Good Man, A Good Life, A Good Death
Confusion! Unbelief!! gripps me as the sad news hit! A good man I know but very briefly is taken away, while no one understands...🕊️ A good life he led! He allowed God to be in control of his life.
To this man I pay one of the highest compliments our society can give a man, the most simple thing to say and powerful when it’s said in earnest:
He’s a good man! He’s a good man! FrancisOko was a good man! FrancisOko was a great man!
He has a good death! The light shines in the darkness!
To you his beloved wife Esther, his children; Vivian, Kingsley and Helen... You will truly miss him! May God embrace you in comfort during this difficult time.
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
Psalm 34:18
*EXIT OF AN ICON*
THE MAN ONIIKARA FRANCIS CHUKWU OKOH. THE JETTA MAN.
With heavy hearth but with total submission to the will of the Almighty God, I accept the realities of life..... ,that brother Francis has gone to stay with his creator. Hearing that Big Daddy as he's fondly called in my family is no more in the land of the living sounded like an earthquake in my brain. I didn't know that our meeting on 13th March, 2024 would be the end of our meeting in the physical realm.
The legacies you left is that of a man who exudes humility, simplicity honesty and generosity. You acted all the Corporal Works of Mercy. You never turned anyone back who asked you for favour, with a Soft voice but decisive brother will say that's alright and that settles it.
He was a great leader, well disposed to his people. A king maker and was always there for the good of his people. Ugwuegu people will attest to this and I, Joe Anwara with over five decades of relationship with him affirms that bro FCO left good foot print on the surface of the earth.
If life can repeat itself, I would still like to be associated with him and marry junior sister of his wife. He was always there to give me a PUSH UP. I'll miss your smiling face.
He loved his family very dearly. If DEATH were not necessary evil, big Daddy wouldn't leave his beloved wife Dr. Esther M. Okoh and his children, Vivian, Kingsley and Dr. Helen widow and fatherless respectively, neither will he forget baby Esther Chiamaka. I'll miss your encouraging words and fatherly advices to my children (your second home).
Let me end this by quoting our mother in-law; "Chukwu will always say oh, that's alright" no matter how difficult the situation may be.
May the Almighty God be Merciful and grant Bro FCO eternal Peace.
Rest in peace Nwokeoma,
Rest in peace the Jetta Man.
Rest in peace my senior brother and in-law.
Rest in peace Di Dr. Esther M. Okoh.
Rest in peace Man of the people.
Rest in the Bossom of the Almighty God till we meet to part no more.
Good night ONIIKARA, Chief Francis Chukwu Okoh.
ONIIKARA FRANCIS CHUKWU OKOH.
It is difficult to accept that you have gone to stay with your Heavenly Father living your beloved children and wife fatherless and widow respectively.
Uncle Francis was a good citizen and selflessness.A good leader gentle man with humble character and full of human milk.
May God give your dear wife Dr. Esther Okoh and your children the fortitude to bear the irreplaceable vacuum your departure to stay with your creator has caused.
Nwa Ibe Uri Nma. Nwokeoma, Oke Nwerem.
May your soul in peace till we meet to part no more.
Chief Francis Chukwu Okoh (the Jetta man) was a very good man. A jolly good friend I can't forget while we were together at Dopemu, it's very painful to hear you're gone. Well, God knows the reasons he is taking you now. My sympathy goes to her amiable wife and the children.
May his soul rest in peace. Amen
We were shocked to learn of the passing of our friend and brother, Francis. We met Francis and his wife, Esther about 15 years ago after a church service here in Vienna and have remained like family ever since, visiting each other often, since we live a stone throw away from each other. Francis, or Franco as we jokingly called him, was a sincere, quiet, and humble brother. He was not a man of many words, but rather, when he spoke, he brought fresh perspectives to issues.
We will miss him. Although gone to be with the Lord, Francis will forever remain in our thoughts.
Our sincere condolences goes to his family, especially to our sister, Esther and his children. May the Almighty comfort you all and grant Francis eternal rest.
Daddy, Nwa Chukwu, a man of peace, the news of your death pained me for reasons. But God knows the best.
May your soul Rest in Peace, till we meet to part no more. AMEN.
Tribute To Oniikara Chief Francis Chukwu Oko
Oniikara Chief Francis Chukwu Oko it is still hard to belief you are no more. When I got the news from your wife, ‘Essy,’ as you fondly call her, that you had passed on to glory, as she euphemistically put it ‘daddy has gone to his father,’ I couldn’t really understand what she said or meant. It was with great reluctance and trembling that the sad news sank into my consciousness. I could not imagine that your death could come so soon, having just been basking in the euphoria of how you were decorated in Oniikara outfit in your recent, though brief visit to the village.
I recall that four or five days earlier, when a spoke with her, soon after you got to Austria after your brief visit to Afikpo, she told me that you were in hospital, and that you would be discharged in the next two days, as a result of medical diagnosisreports. Little did we know that your journey to the great beyond had commenced, while we were just talking as mortals. That is the transient nature of life.
Death, existentialist philosophers, will say is one of the facticity and frailty of existence. As travellers on this earthly journey, St. Augustine the Catholic Bishop of Hippo vividly described the fleeting nature of life. He notes that from the moment we begin living in our mortal bodies, we are steadily moving towards death.
To grieve, we must as human beings, we take solace on Matt 5:4, “Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted.” This is our consolation becauseGod’s word is forever true.
Having had the initial shock, we accept the reality with philosophical calmness, as we take solace in the teachings of the Holy Book, Sirach 41:3-4 “fear not death’s decree for you; remember it embraces those before you and those after. Thus God has ordained for all flesh; why then should you reject the will of the Most High?” Psalm 116:15 “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.” And so our brother goes home to be with his creator.
Oniikara Chief francis Okoh is a fulfilled man, a patriotic ugwuegu man and Afikpo in general, who invested his time and resources for the development of the community and growth of her people: a man of peace and a great social influencer. A fine gentleman, a good man per excellence, he was a man whose entire world outlook was synonymous with service.He has served his time and generations, having attained the enviable age of Oniikara Ehugbo.
Farewell great man, decent and virtuous man. Continue to sleep in peace in the Lord until resurrection morning when we shall meet to part no more.
May God grant your soul eternal repose.
Adieu Oniikara Chief Francis Chukwu Okoh
"Innalilahi waina ilayhi rojiun" From God we have come and to him is our return. May Almighty God accept him into the highest place in paradise. A gentle man to the core.
I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your beloved husband. Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.
May you find comfort in the cherished memories you shared with him, and may the love and support of friends and colleagues provide solace during this period of grief.
With sympathy,
Dr. Diana Haoula
The man, Brother Francis Chukwu Okoh was a worthy, gallant and an epitome of a well disciplined man. His calm, cool, articulate and humble attitude to life was awesome.
For many years of living under his roof, never was it heard that he quarreled with anyone. He was so peaceful to a fault. You had a listening ear, and your face always beamed with smiles. You spoke more with your head than your mouth.
Your indiscriminate and a welcoming attitude, your generosity towards anyone that came across you was unimaginable. You stood strong and cared for your family and to everyone that crossed your path.
I could go on and on but will not be able to exhaust what you stood for in a single page. I'm convinced it was your turn to throw in the towel otherwise, you had the best medicals according to your adorable wife. It is well with you. You lived a life worthy of emulation. I say bravo!!!
My consolations is that I know, that heaven has gained a soul with your departure. It is well with your soul in Jesus's Name. Amen.
Laa n' udo nwaokeoma!
Laa n' udo broda Francis Chukwu Okoh!!
Lerue Enya di Essy!!!
Brother Francis, the news of your death shocked me. Till today I keep praying that I will wake up one day and realize it was a bad dream. You left too soon my dear brother but God knows best. I am comforted by the knowledge that we will be reunited in the end to part no more.
RIP my dear brother - “Iburinma”.
A Tribute to a Gentle Soul
Brother Francis was a man of God. He was a sincere, gentle and caring man who not only loved his wife and children very much but gave them his support in their endeavours and this was reflected in his life.
He will be sorely missed. My sincere prayer is that God almighty comforts the family left behind. May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace in the bosom of father Abraham.
A TRIBUTE TO A KIND SOUL
Daddy, you were a beautiful soul, very kind hearted and caring.
The News of your demise hits me, it was like a joke. Though is a fact that all men will die,but we would have loved it if you lived longer. Iam consoled by the fact that you passed on to glory as a Child of God. May God bless your soul. Amen.
Keep resting sir.
We love you
Good bye sir,see you on the resurrection morning.
TRIBUTE TO ONIIKARA FRANCIS CHUKWU OKOH
The 18th day of March, 2024 was the day I could not explain whether I was dreaming or not, following the news of your demise. It was a sad Monday for me.The news of your demise came to me like a bomb shell. Little did I know you will not make it froma brief illness. The little time I have known you, I can completely say you’re a good man sir.
Continue to rest in the bosom of the lord.
I would like to offer my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your husband.
May the good Lord continue to strengthen you and your family now and always. Amen.
Unu jisie ike dear Auntie Mgbo
Tribute to Daddy Francis Okoh
Your life brought profound blessings to all who were fortunate enough to know you. Though we mourn your passing, we are immensely grateful for the time we shared together.
Though you are no longer with us, your loving presence will forever endure in our hearts and souls. You have left an indelible mark on our lives, and your memory will continue to inspire and comfort us.
A TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR UNCLE
Uncle, I have tried to write this tribute on two occasions but I couldn't, cause my heart is heavy. The thought that you're gone and that the only chance to meet again is in heaven is just unbelievable. Those who knew you, knew that you were kind and loving to a fault. "Jetta man" as fondly called, was a recognition of your achievements but you were silent in your dealings.
Your love for your family was outstanding, that I really did admire. Till your last visit home, you always kept a cheerful look.
We love you uncle! but God loves you more. I'm in no doubt you're resting in His bossom.
Rest in peace, until we meet never to part.
Adieu nwokeobuoma!
Adieu dii Essy !
Adieu horri !
Oke ogo m, Frank, as I called you,
Your gentle approach to life was enviable.
You were an inspiration.
I cherish the many interactions we had.
The most recent being your visit with Essy, as you called your wife, my dear cousin.
May your soul rest in peace.
Adieu!
Elegy in Honor of Oniikara Francis Chukwu Okoh.
I met Late Oniikara Francis Chukwu Okoh who I fondly call “Chief” in 2006 when I worked with his wife at the African Development Bank, and we lived in the same area. I therefore, had the unique opportunity of meeting and interacting with him at close quarters. From the first day I saw him, until this day, he struck me as a man not given to too many words, quiet, humble and a perfect gentleman. Whenever he hears me saying how I fight or will fight people in my office, he will always tell me, “tukpaa nwahu” which literally means take it easy; that I should not fight or make trouble.
Chief always had the desire to do good, kindhearted and spotless white clean. You cannot fail to appreciate his infectious smile and welcoming attitude and or even his greetings of “Unudikwa nma?” whenever he met with anyone or even spoke on phone. On several occasions, he had provided me with problem solving pieces of advice and counselling. I never saw him indulging in idle talks. He liked calling a spade, a spade. As Douglas William Jerrold would state, “He was so benevolent, so merciful a man that, in his mistaken passion, he would have held an umbrella over a duck in a shower of rain”. However, we will take consolation in his problem-solving ability, tenacity of purpose; and according to Albert Pike, knowing that “what we have done for ourselves only dies with us but what we have done for others and the world remains, and is immortal”.
The question on our lips currently is “Why this painful exit now?” but “Why not now?” It has happened, it has happened, and none of us has control over what has happened. So, we must therefore, take solace in his good works while relying on those he mentored to continue with his good deeds. He has passed through this planet called earth and has left his footprints on the sands of time with his good works. I stand, in humility, in the shadow of his greatness and, yes, of his almost Biblical stature as a good Catholic to ask in the language of Bard, “when comes such another?”
His exit from the stage now, is justifying Benjamin Disraeli’s statement that, “what we anticipate seldom occurs; but what we least expect generally happens”. We will take consolation in Chief’s hard work, ability to make friends easily and tenacity of purpose, which were exemplary. His passage through the world was not only significant but represented a trans-signification of life. Not only did his life show substance but it was a trans-substantiation of living. We shall also take solace in the fact that his life touched people of different creed and credo while reminding us of William Shakespeare’s saying that “he who cuts off twenty years of life, cuts off so many years of fearing death”. We must therefore, have the patience to endure Late Oniikara Francis Chukwu Okoh’s exit. Our condolences go to his wife and children as well as other loved ones he left behind. May God our father be with us all and give us the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
We have loved Oniikara Francis Chukwu Okoh (Chief) in life, let us all remember him in death through prayers.
Tribute to my beloved brother: ONIIKARA Francis Chukwu OKOH
Writing this is actually very difficult for me. I cannot believe that what I heard was true but events have shown that there is no going back. This brings my mind to IshiaguHigh School, (St. John Bosco’s) when we were there.
In the actual sense of it, you were old enough but the family needed you, however, God’s love is more than any other thing. My happiness is that you have replicated your self in the person of K.O., your son. We will carry on with him to continue with the legacy you left behind. Moreover, am very happy with your able wife who despite all odds brought you home. May the Lord bless her a number of times.
Adieu Big Brother
Adieu Gentle Man
Adieu Oke Nwoke
Our condolences to our beloved Sister Esther and family.
It was indeed a shock to hear that our dear brother and friend had passed on. Uncle Francis was a gentleman, a caring heart. We will miss him but consoled knowing that he is with the Lord.
May our Father in heaven grant my Sister Esther and the children the comfort and strength to bear this great loss.
May his soul rest in peace.
Dear Mr. Okoh,
We received the news of your passing with shock and disbelief. I was in the middle of a meeting when I heard and my heart sank. This was meant to be the season for you and your dearest wife to start a new phase of life without work pressures or deadlines. Just the two of you enjoying your golden years together, but God had other plans. Calling you to greater glory in the bosom of our father.
You were a major pillar of support and quiet cheerleader to our dear sister. Your wisdom and years of experience had a calming effect in every situation. I experienced this on many occasions when I came by the house to visit.
You were a gentleman and a shining example of a husband and father. You were a quiet strength and support for your whole family. Even though I only got to know you in Vienna, I heard many good stories about your career. Your honesty, professionalism, discipline, empathy and generosity were legendary.
To say you will be greatly missed by your family and friends is an understatement. You have left a huge vacuum in the hearts of all those who love you dearly. But we know that while we mourn your call to glory, heaven rejoices because it gained a saint.
Rest on in the bosom of our Lord Jesus. We are confident in his promise that he has prepared a place for you. For he said in John 14:2
”Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.“
May the Lord grant you eternal rest and comfort your family.
TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BROTHER-ONIIKARA FRANCIS CHUKWU OKOH
Death is a natural visa required to travel into God’s glory. Though, as Christians we labour and toil for it but hardly do we willingly apply for it; and when it is handed down to us by God, the highest Consultant, it becomes a calamity to the living world. The only mystery is when, where and how it will come. Only God has that answer.
My hope was that you stay longer with us, because of your encouragement, advices, love for me and other members of Nde Nwachukwu. You were an engine of unity among the members of the families. Your exit have left a hole that will be very difficult to fill.
Rest in peace Brother Francis till we meet to part no more.
Adieu Okenwoke
Adieu Oniikara Francis Chukwu Okoh
It feels like yesterday when you left us, your laughter still echoing in our hearts. You were more than family—you were a beacon of kindness and grace. Your unwavering faith and gentle spirit touched everyone who knew you.
As the seasons change, we hold onto your legacy—the way you lived with purpose, the way you loved without bounds. You’re not just a memory; you’re a testament to goodness, a reminder that there’s something greater beyond this earthly realm.
Rest well, may your soul dance among the stars, forever bathed in God’s light.
I send my heartfelt condolences to you Mrs Essy and your family. I understand that this loss has created a vacuum in your lives. I pray God to fill this space with his blessings and goodness.
May God grant eternal rest to our dad, Onikara Francis Chukwu Oko.
Dear Esther,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
May your beloved husband's soul rest in peace.
Please accept my sincere condolences.
Francis, you were so real without pretences. You were an embodiment of love. Your life was a life of giving and giving. I recal sometime in year 2003 when you came with your lovely wife (our friend Ester) to see our building site which is our present residence. This was before your family and you relocated to Austria. I recall your suggestion on fitting of a guest rest room which the architect surprisingly left out. You altered the drawing and the result is still standing proud today.
Your smiles, gentle and sincere warmth will be greatly missed. We did not expect it so soon even as we know it is a necessary end for us all. Sleep well nwerimoche. To your wife I say: Nwohibe nagide. Obasi no na Elu jagbagi Ume. Kaa
MY DEAREST UNCLE
It is hard to say goodbye to someone who had such a big, great and unique attributes that impacts on anyone that comes around him.
It hurts so much you are gone, but I am grateful for the time we share together as a family.
Though I mourn your sudden exit but I will ever celebrate your fatherly attribute that make it easier for all around you to feel loved and accommodated.
Truly, you hold a special place in my heart.
Painfully but in total submission to the will of God I bid you goodbye Big Uncle, may your soul find Rest in the bosom of Christ.
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